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Told by a third party, though it is very touching and my sentiments are very similar!

This especially hits home because my fiancee's grandfather, a retired Allen County, OH Sheriff's Deputy of 40+years died on the twelfth of December from health complications. He had been coping with dementia since i met him 4 years ago. He is in a better place now.

-A Cop's Story at Christmas-
The Escort
It was many decades ago when I first joined the police department, I knew there would be special occasions my family would spend without me. Knowing that fact didn't make the task any easier. The celebrations I missed that first year depressed me and sometimes made me feel bitter. Working on Christmas Eve was always the worst.

On Christmas Eve years ago, I learned that blessings can come disguised as misfortune, and honor is more than just a word.
I was riding one man patrol on the 4-12 shift. The night was cold. Everywhere I looked I saw reminders of the holiday: families packing their cars with presents, beautifully decorated trees in living room windows and roofs adorned with tiny sleighs. It all added to my holiday funk.
The evening had been relatively quiet; there were calls for barking dogs and a residential false burglar alarm. There was nothing to make the night pass any quicker. I thought of my own family and sunk further into depression.
Shortly after 2200 hours I got a radio call to the home of an elderly, terminally ill man. I parked my patrol car in front of a simple Cape Cod style home. First aid kit in hand, I walked up the short path to the front door. As I approached, a woman who seemed to be about 80 years old opened the door. "He's in here", she said. She led me to a back bedroom.
We passed through a living room that was furnished in a style I had come to associate with older people. The sofa has an afghan blanket draped over its back and a dark, solid Queen Anne chair say next to an unused fireplace. The mantle was cluttered with an eccentric mix of several photos, some ceramic figurines and an antique clock. A floor lamp provided soft lighting.
We entered a small bedroom where a frail looking man lay in bed with a blanket pulled up to his chin. He wore a blank stare on his ashen, skeletal face. His breathing was shallow and labored. He was barely alive. The trappings of illness were all around his bed. The nightstand was littered with a large number of pill vials. An oxygen bottle stood nearby. Its plastic hose, with face mask attached, rested on the blanket.
I asked the old woman why she called the police. She simply shrugged and nodded sadly toward her husband, indicating it was at his request. I looked at him and he stared intently into my eyes. He seemed relaxed now. I didn't understand the suddenly calm expression on his face.
I looked around the room again. A dresser stood along the wall to the left of the bed. On it was the usual memorabilia: ornate perfume bottles, a white porcelain pin case, and a wooden jewelry case. There were also several photos in simple frames. One caught my eye and I walked closer to the dresser for a closer look. The picture showed a young man dressed in a police uniform. It was unmistakably a photo of the man in bed. I knew then why I was there.
I looked at the old man and he motioned with his hand toward the side of the bed. I walked over and stood beside him. He slid a thin arm from under the covers and took my hand. Soon, I felt his hand go limp, I looked at his face. There was no fear there. I saw only peace.
He knew he was dying; he was aware his time was very near. I knew now that he was afraid of what was about to happen and he wanted the protection of a fellow cop on his journey. A caring God had seen to it that his child would be delivered safely to Him. The honor of being his escort fell to me.
When I left at the end of my tour that night, the temperature seemed to have risen considerably, and all the holiday displays I saw on the way home made me smile.

I no longer feel sorry for myself for having to work on Christmas Eve. I have chosen an honorable profession. I pray that when it's my turn to leave this world there will be a cop there to hold my hand and remind me that I have nothing to fear.
I wish all my brothers and sisters who have to work this Christmas Eve all the joy and warmth of the season.
We have all been there. God bless you all.


"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God" (Matthew 5:9).
 

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Nice story. I had a similar one years ago that got to me enough that I taped it in my locker as a reality check once in a while. It circulated a lot, and you may have seen it, The Policeman's Prayer? Working holidays gets depressing thinking about your kids home without you.
 

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It circulated a lot, and you may have seen it, The Policeman's Prayer? Working holidays gets depressing thinking about your kids home without you.
The Policeman's Prayer,- most definitely. Know it.

I chose to read The Final Inspection at my fiancee's grandfather's funeral.

It was definitely a moving speech. I'll make another thread about him maybe later today. (I still have to go stocking stuffer shopping and it's 0245 here in VA...
 

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Great story, brought me to tears.:cry2:Be safe everyone!! Merry Christmas!!
 

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Very nice, 45caliberspecial!! My father-in-law crossed over on Christmas day in 1990. It just hasn't been the same for us since then. My wife gets very weepy this time of year thinking about her father, even though we know he's with God.
 
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